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Can You Be Married and Still Support a Family Without a Real Job?

Below is an e-mail from a reader of  Career Success Without a Real Job in Russia asking me whether a person can survive without a real job if the person wants to marry and have children.

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From:  Корякова Евгения
To:  vipbooks
Sent:  Thu, August 12, 2010 5:36:09 AM
Subject:  I'm russian girl at 24 and I'm going to change my life completely!

Dear Ernie!
 
My Name is Eugenia, I'm 24, living in Russia and dreaming of a not-real job. 
 
I hate my job. Every morning I ask myself: is this all that I was born for ?!
 
With 22 years I completed my study of international relations, that I allways hated, but did it because my friend studied it. So it was not my real choice.
 
Then I took my job as internet project developer, but only for money, only to live somehow and to pay my flat.
 
And it is now 2 years ago. 
 
But SUDDENLY a realised: why should I be afraid and do only what the circumstances want from me?! Am I not free to choice my life myself?
 
And this question in me was so loud and amazing! 
 
I cannot stand sitting in front of computer and starring advertising internet banners that I have to sell to the clients.
It is not my life - said my heart. I want to enjoy every minute of my life and not just wait for the end of the office day! 
 
I cannot be like a prisoner of circumstances and my fear to CHANGE my life anymore.
 
My boyfriend does not understand me. But I am so hard in my opinion!
 
2 days ago I find your book in the internet. And it is exactly what I was looking for!
 
The only question is: is it possible - to have not real job and to have a family? Have you children?
 
Because everybody who has not a real job just says about himself and never about his family - children or wife?
 
Do you have children and wife?
 
Please, answer me, how can I compare family with not real job? Do you have an example? And what is about your family?
 
Thank you very much! I will continue reading your books and today after office I'll go and buy a notebook to wright my wishes and talents down)
  
best regards
Eugenia

 

This was my answer to Eugenia:
 
 

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Hello Eugenia:
 
Yes, a person - man or woman - can be married and make a great living without a real job.
 
Particularly with the Internet, there is more opportunity for people to make money today than there ever was.
 
I know people who make over $100,000 a month - not a year, a month - on the Internet.
 
I myself am not married and don't have any children. But I make over $100,000 a year working 4 or 5 hours a day. So, why couldn't I afford to have a family on over $100,000 a year?
 
Married people just like single people like to dream up excuses - which are always lies that have no truth - about why they cannot do something.
 
In fact, it is easier for a married person than for a single person because a married person can work at an unreal job while the spouse has a real job as a means of support.
 
Read this article by Steve Pavlina on the 10 Reasons Why a Person Should Never Have a Job.
 
 
Incidentally, Steve is married and makes over $100,000 a month.  (Note that I said a month and not a year).
 
For interest's sake, here is a link to one of my blog entries on Redroom.com about a guy named Rolondo who wrote to me from Cuba but is now living in Russia.
Another guy who is married and does not have a real job is my mentor and hero.
 
I have attended two of his seminars and will be attending another.
 
His name is Brendon Burchard.
 
Brendon is married and does not have a real job.
 
Brendon was bankrupt - that means having absolutely no money - 2 years ago and he has made $4.6 million dollars since.
 
You may want to watch the 5 free videos that Brendon used to promote his Experts Academy Online package.
 
These videos have a lot of valuable material but don't come close to his Experts Academy Online and his live events like the Partnership Seminar that I just attended.
 
The videos may come down soon because Brendon sold out the Experts Academy Online which includes tickets to his 4-day Experts Academy Seminar in October, which I am attending.
 
Check out the videos at these links (these videos still work even the program is sold out):
 
 
 
 
 
 
Ernie J. Zelinski
Best-Selling Author, Innovator, and Unconventional Career Expert
Author of the Bestseller  How to Retire Happy, Wild, and Free
(Over 125,000 copies sold and published in 9 languages)
and the International Bestseller The Joy of Not Working
( Over 250,000 copies sold and published in 17 languages )

 

 
   
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